{"id":462,"date":"2017-11-25T07:11:26","date_gmt":"2017-11-25T06:11:26","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/vardeljus.blog\/?p=462"},"modified":"2019-10-10T09:39:38","modified_gmt":"2019-10-10T07:39:38","slug":"462","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogg.svenskakyrkan.se\/vardeljus\/2017\/11\/25\/462\/","title":{"rendered":"Sexistisk kollega f\u00e5r h\u00e5llas"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight:400\">Var p\u00e5 en l\u00e4ngre inomkyrklig utbildning f\u00f6r m\u00e5nga \u00e5r sedan. En manlig deltagare ( pr\u00e4st) klagade i v\u00e5r lilla samtalsgrupp p\u00e5 att jag inte \u201d bj\u00f6d\u201d tillr\u00e4ckligt p\u00e5 mig sj\u00e4lv, &#8211; dvs ber\u00e4ttade mer om vem jag var privat som person! Jag kunde verkligen inte k\u00e4nna igen mig i hans anklagelse ( jag var b\u00e5de glad, \u00f6ppen och spontan) men gick inte i f\u00f6rsvar utan framh\u00f6ll att det var min r\u00e4tt att ber\u00e4tta hur lite eller mycket jag sj\u00e4lv ville! De \u00f6vriga i gruppen skruvade tyst p\u00e5 sig. Bara en av dem sa n\u00e5got som lite liknade ett f\u00f6rsvar f\u00f6r mig. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight:400\">N\u00e5gra dagar senare fanns den anklagande manliga deltagaren (pr\u00e4st) bakom mig n\u00e4r jag studerade en anslagstavla. Ingen tr\u00e4ngsel! \u00d6de och tomt i den rymliga korridoren. Hans hand hittade \u00e4nd\u00e5 min rumpa! En tillr\u00e4ckligt l\u00e5ng \u201dtaffsning\u201d f\u00f6r att jag skulle m\u00e4rka den. Tillr\u00e4ckligt kort f\u00f6r att jag inom mig skulle f\u00f6rs\u00f6ka f\u00e5 det till ett misstag, att han bara \u201d r\u00e5kade\u201d&#8230;! Jag k\u00e4nde mig b\u00e5de chockad och maktl\u00f6s! <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight:400\">Tiden efter\u00e5t undvek jag honom! <\/span><span style=\"font-weight:400\">Jag blev mindre glad och spontan och ville bara d\u00e4rifr\u00e5n! Han \u00e4r i tj\u00e4nst och m\u00f6ter utsatta m\u00e4nniskor. Har inte ber\u00e4ttat om detta f\u00f6r n\u00e5gon f\u00f6r jag l\u00e4rde mig, som alla andra, tidigt att \u201ds\u00e5h\u00e4r \u00e4r det\u201d! Inga vittnen, inga bevis! Och han \u00e4r en omtyckt person&#8230; Gift b\u00e5de d\u00e5 och nu!<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Var p\u00e5 en l\u00e4ngre inomkyrklig utbildning f\u00f6r m\u00e5nga \u00e5r sedan. En manlig deltagare ( pr\u00e4st) klagade i v\u00e5r lilla samtalsgrupp p\u00e5 att jag inte \u201d bj\u00f6d\u201d tillr\u00e4ckligt p\u00e5 mig sj\u00e4lv, &#8211; dvs ber\u00e4ttade mer om vem jag var privat som person! 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