{"id":66,"date":"2017-11-24T09:01:00","date_gmt":"2017-11-24T08:01:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/vardeljus.blog\/?p=66"},"modified":"2019-10-10T09:39:42","modified_gmt":"2019-10-10T07:39:42","slug":"66","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogg.svenskakyrkan.se\/vardeljus\/2017\/11\/24\/66\/","title":{"rendered":"Diakon uts\u00e4tts under sj\u00e4lav\u00e5rd"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight:400\">Som nyvigd diakon p\u00e5 min f\u00f6rsta tj\u00e4nst h\u00e4nvisas snabbt en person till mig f\u00f6r sj\u00e4lav\u00e5rd pga min kompetens inom hbtq. Mannen \u00e4r gift med en kvinna men t\u00e4nder p\u00e5 m\u00e4n. Snabbt blir samtalen med fokus sexuella fantasier. Jag vill vara \u00f6ppen och icke d\u00f6mande och t\u00e4nker att det \u00e4r viktigt f\u00f6r honom att v\u00e5ga uttrycka vad han k\u00e4nner, t\u00e4nker och dr\u00f6mmer om. Min respons p\u00e5 ber\u00e4ttandet \u00e4r sakligt och inte p\u00e5 n\u00e5got s\u00e4tt inbjudande.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight:400\"><br \/>\n<\/span><span style=\"font-weight:400\">Pl\u00f6tsligt b\u00f6rjar han skicka sexuella sms och inviter till mig. Jag s\u00e4ger ifr\u00e5n och h\u00f6r inte fr\u00e5n honom p\u00e5 ett tag. K\u00e4nde skuld \u00f6ver att jag inte varit tydlig nog eller sagt ifr\u00e5n p\u00e5 ett s\u00e4tt som skammade honom.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight:400\">Pratade aldrig med n\u00e5gon om det. Vart v\u00e4nder en sig med s\u00e5nt en f\u00e5r utst\u00e5 i sj\u00e4lav\u00e5rd?<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Som nyvigd diakon p\u00e5 min f\u00f6rsta tj\u00e4nst h\u00e4nvisas snabbt en person till mig f\u00f6r sj\u00e4lav\u00e5rd pga min kompetens inom hbtq. Mannen \u00e4r gift med en kvinna men t\u00e4nder p\u00e5 m\u00e4n. Snabbt blir samtalen med fokus sexuella fantasier. 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